We were born both born in SA and immigrated to New Zealand in 2000 and currently living in rural Marlborough on a lifestyle block. We've been in a relationship for just on 25 years. We are actively involved in the BDSM subculture and members of the local group. Our involvement in the BDSM subculture stretches over a period of more than twenty years. Most of our interest and experience lies within the areas of CP, bondage, play piercing, water sports, etc.